Creating conversation about managing conflict
When children just won't... stop...fighting ...
Hansel and Gretel’s constant bickering leads them into the clutches of a lonely old witch.
Hold your breath as they attempt an unconventional escape and find that while they felt helpless alone, they can be powerful together.
Created for all those exasperated parents out there, 'Sibling Wars' is a great launch into a conversation about healthy conflict.
MORE ABOUT 'Sibling wars'
A look, or a word, or just standing too near.
A touch of a toy, or a tease, or a jeer,
then Hansel and Gretel would break into fight,
and neither would stop, both protesting, “I’m right!”
When Hansel and Gretel's exhausted parents sent their fighting children outside, they couldn't have guessed what would happen next!
A forbidden forest, a gingerbread house, a feverish witch, a case of mistaken identity, and an unusual rescue plan ...
But best of all, a much calmer household!
Join the fun! 'Sibling Wars' is a hilarious story with laugh out loud illustrations that will help you get started naturally on a great conversation about managing conflict.
Chat more about managing conflict by:
Reading Gretel's Fairytale Journal (beware spoiler alert!)
Reading The 'Fix-the-Fight' Team's Relationship Rules
Reading Hansel's Top Tips for Anger
Discussing healthy conflict questions
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Gretel's Fairytale Journal (spoiler alert - ready the story first!)
Find out how Gretel's thinking changed...
Gretel found she could 'Fix-the-Fight' easier when she started listening to her feelings. Read about what she discovered after her 'Wake Up Wall' experience in her Fairytale Journal.
The 'Fix-the-Fight' Team's Relationship Rules
Agreements that help keep the peace
By setting out how they will treat each other, Hansel and Gretel stunned their parents with less fights! You can do the same! Click here for a Hansel and Gretel themed template to make one of your own!
Hansel's Top Tips for Managing Anger
Hansel learnt to stop his anger, before he gets angry!
LISTEN - When we listen to ourselves we can talk to and about our feelings. See Gretel's Fairytale Journal above for an explanation!
BREATHE - When we notice we are getting angry, we can focus on controlling and slowing our breathing. It helps!
SOLVE IT - We can focus on solving the problem, instead of on the problem itself.
GET AWAY - We can politely remove ourselves from the situation. Exercise can help!
BE PREPARED - We can choose healthy actions in advance for moments when we feel like we are getting angry e.g. saying 'take it easy' on repeat.
Questions to keep conversations going
Pick a question and get talking!
Do you think that you are good at managing conflict? Why? Why not?
Do you think conflict is always bad?
What are some of the upsides of conflict?
Have you ever felt disappointed because you missed out to avoid conflict?
Are there any conflicts at the moment that you would like to chat about?
Is there someone who you think manages conflict well?
What things drive you absolutely nuts?
What do most of your fights seem to be about?
What do you think it means to be thick-skinned? Do you think you are?
Have you ever regretted getting angry? Why?
What things work for you when you are in a fight and want to cool down?
What is something you'd like to try to manage your anger?
Is there someone you think manages conflict poorly? What is your reaction?
What would life look like if everyone managed conflict badly?
What would like look like if everyone managed conflict well?
Do you have a strategy for what you will do in a conflict. Can I help with that?
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